Many look forward to the holiday season, as it’s a time to celebrate with loved ones. However, for divorced parents, this can be an incredibly challenging time of the year, as dividing custody can be a source of contention. If you and your spouse got divorced and haven’t created a holiday custody schedule yet, it’s in your best interest to do so as soon as possible. If you’re unsure of your options, the following blog explores common schedules and tips for choosing the best option for your family. You’ll also learn why connecting with a Monroe, Louisana family law attorney is critical if you are having issues with these matters.
What Are the Different Custody Options Around the Holidays?
Typically, the holidays can disrupt your regular custody plan given the special nature of these days. Additionally, creating a holiday custody schedule can help ensure that one parent doesn’t get to spend an unequal amount of time with the child on special occasions because they simply happen to have custody that day.
One of the most common options is to create a rotating schedule. Essentially, you and your ex-spouse would each choose holidays to spend with the child and swap the next year. For example, Parent A may have Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, and New Year’s Day, while Parent B would have Christmas Day, New Year’s Eve, and the Fourth of July. The following year, they would switch holidays. This allows each parent the opportunity to spend some holidays with their child every year.
Another option is for each parent to have “fixed” holidays. Essentially, each parent would have the child on the same holidays annually which can help create a more stable environment. However, this is often hard to negotiate, as each parent will likely want to have the child on “bigger” holidays.
Finally, you may be able to see the child on the actual holiday. For example, Parent A may have the child until noon before Parent B picks up the child to spend time with them. This can be difficult, however, as the child could spend a considerable amount of the holiday traveling.
How Do We Choose a Holiday Custody Schedule That Is Fair?
Determining what kind of custody schedule is best for your family depends heavily on the circumstances of your relationship. For example, if you and your ex-spouse live close enough, it may make sense to split the day without taking away from your child’s holiday. In some instances, you may even be on good enough terms that you and your child can spend the day with your ex.
If you are having difficulty determining what holiday custody schedule is best for your needs, it’s in your best interest to connect with a family law attorney who can help ensure these matters are handled quickly so you can make it through the holiday season with as little stress as possible. At Breithaupt, DuBos, & Wolleson, LLC, we understand how frustrating these matters can be, which is why we are dedicated to helping you through complex family law matters. Contact us today for more information.
